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Q/ b4 g</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/165913zxfxs3sq1ax1xw61.jpg" alt="20170201234531048441487_910.jpg" title="20170201234531048441487_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><br /> <span style="display:none">: n' w$ J' f9 |</span><font class="jammer">" C& P, {5 y) f' _8 U. q9 J</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">% a, W1 f3 J! K/ _/ _</span><br /> <span style="display:none"> u A5 E7 k3 f8 A</span><div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/165919j4dz32d9ii8dkhuc.jpg" alt="20170201234609251704783_910.jpg" title="20170201234609251704783_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><br /> <span style="display:none">1 k0 T& X2 _& Y7 r$ u( i</span><font class="jammer">6 ], S8 E! Q! k" m8 J$ Y' W5 Y</font><br /> 出镜/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">; K7 L* G3 {- |( ?. Q</span> 所以当某一日刘哥说，过几天<a href="http://www.dali8.net/" target="_blank" class="relatedlink">大理</a>有一场<a href="http://www.dali8.net/" target="_blank" class="relatedlink">白族</a>婚礼，你来不来？来，不就2400公里么～～如此任性，打着飞的就去了。<font class="jammer">+ |) y1 Q$ f0 l k2 j</font><br /> 那夜我住在大理桃源人家海景别院，一个人的双人床上，关了灯没舍得拉窗帘，如白昼般的月光，星星点点的洒在窗外的洱海上，有一些恍惚，像是一场梦。<br /> <span style="display:none">, u# z5 h' n0 Z: _</span> 在大理逛了几天，终于等来了那场白族婚礼。几乎整个桃园村的人都来了，流水席如此的壮观。<br /> <span style="display:none">& |. T! q& E- y, `4 z</span> 满眼白族盛装的女人们，说着我听不懂的语言，我像是从一场梦，到了另一场梦。<br /> <span style="display:none">5 J* L: T5 f: ~5 I2 K5 u& y</span><font class="jammer">' Q# v! j! M6 t$ l- \</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/165939bswb69kqkxzvwl33.jpg" alt="20170201234613579648024_910.jpg" title="20170201234613579648024_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">( l( u( V# v. u7 a</font><br /> <font class="jammer">4 t- F- e+ }: S/ ?* U; {</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">' I8 @# t( N* J' |" D' X, p</span><br /> <span style="display:none">$ x$ v% `3 }+ z& q& ~+ ?& L</span><div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/165957o2h9bnioobz9992i.jpg" alt="20170201234624048899834_910.jpg" title="20170201234624048899834_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer"># s) b8 P! c% m</font><br /> <font class="jammer">3 V' q& W3 d0 ?$ T4 S, O</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">+ T. `: q$ y4 V8 c/ q! t</span><br /> <span style="display:none">% J* H3 }( N' p6 T</span><div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170010w25uamdgu8yz50m0.jpg" alt="20170201234512188860487_910.jpg" title="20170201234512188860487_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">" J4 T$ `6 I3 x P</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">7 F. ~$ c8 ?" y, M, r</span> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">, e0 ?' `+ p) \8 V' E" S5 ]8 Q</font><br /> 似乎很多少数民族的婚礼，都是从跳舞开始的。<br /> <span style="display:none">8 _, l1 A% [; H7 c9 w</span> 在婚礼的前一天，村里人都过来帮忙，杀猪的，洗菜的，每个人都有分工。我从海舌公园看完日落，回到桃源村已经天黑了，一到村口便听到喜庆的音乐声。走进婚礼人家一看，院子里挤满了人，许多红衣的白族女子在跳舞，气氛好热烈。<font class="jammer"> f1 T, @5 P {. a6 I+ j</font><br /> <font class="jammer">: C4 {) S' j# [</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170019hb73333o33g3g31k.jpg" alt="20170201234601095128072_910.jpg" title="20170201234601095128072_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">9 U9 @* N8 k4 a5 N</font><br /> <font class="jammer">$ D# F# \$ A4 h ~5 L" f</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">6 J6 e" T0 r& ]$ ^/ ]</span> 找了个位置坐着，一会儿便有个大哥端了很多碗过来，笑嘻嘻的问我：要不要来一碗饵丝？厚着脸皮领了一碗，刚好没吃晚饭。<font class="jammer">) ]) @3 E) t! C</font><br /> 桌子上三三两两都是陌生人，对面的大哥也是游客，显然和我一样，是巡着音乐声闯进来的。我们聊着大理，聊着洱海，聊着白族姑娘，一不小心就把一碗饵丝吃了个底朝天。<br /> <span style="display:none">; i# C+ B W( j4 F/ f- |# _. @ _</span> 当地人和我们介绍着明天婚礼的细节，于是知道了明天结婚的是桃源人家的二公子，新娘才二十岁，最厉害的是，新娘的妈妈是79年的!<font class="jammer">; R# a% j$ v8 @7 F' G, A: D9 T</font><br /> <font class="jammer">' ]/ Y9 w8 |* z& g2 I7 d</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170045x1n8t6kwh4htf176.jpg" alt="20170201234625970798381_910.jpg" title="20170201234625970798381_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><br /> <span style="display:none">6 f$ O/ D& G5 M' u% F- m</span><br /> <span style="display:none">! w; n, o, O n+ U0 W$ \</span> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">+ Q" `# x% ]$ a+ u</font><br /> 在北上广，有些79年的女人，也许还没有结婚，而新娘的妈妈居然嫁女儿了。村民和我说，这里结婚普遍很早，女孩子都是二十出头，找一个村里的小伙子就嫁了。<font class="jammer">' v' [, W6 n+ r# G</font><br /> 多么简单和美好。在不谙世事的年纪，遇一个人，在一个阳光灿烂的小村庄里，结婚生子，过简简单单的人生。没有城市那么多套路，纠结，反复。<font class="jammer">9 a( E- F& Y2 R</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">* g. n9 M8 p5 A* F0 l( R7 I</span><div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170122tpbeb1nb7df4daxx.jpg" alt="20170201234517798576900_910.jpg" title="20170201234517798576900_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">% q( m5 Z8 p9 P" W! J" ]% U</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">4 n$ _. Y: y6 @3 t</span> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">4 J! U! a6 [: v6 T</span> 婚礼的第二天，我早早的披衣起床，站在桃园人家海景别院的阳台上，对着洱海金黄的日出，内心柔软。下楼吃了早饭后，便又去了那家婚礼的人家。<font class="jammer"># a7 N7 y4 D3 R7 L9 y& K* m3 X1 Y</font><br /> 每个人脸上都微笑着。在屋角，看到村里的人们都提着几个塑料袋在打菜。上前一问才知道，是给家里不能来喜宴的人带回去的。一脸盘的荤菜素菜，被红红绿绿的塑料袋带走。<font class="jammer">: ~5 ^3 O) [% d</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">8 Z* @5 V7 [7 Z4 ~/ t# F# ?</span><div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170211dy8k2px0b2bukupy.jpg" alt="20170201234523688969373_910.jpg" title="20170201234523688969373_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><br /> <span style="display:none">2 y# G2 Y4 y5 t9 y9 d8 A( r6 h</span><br /> <span style="display:none">; i; m3 `' r5 h3 `# d</span> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">: k# C5 }0 I( c7 @% D& J</span><font class="jammer">5 K W7 V% P. A6 C</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170219srv55yjk0hjgth1j.jpg" alt="20170201234559438264392_910.jpg" title="20170201234559438264392_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><br /> <span style="display:none">. G' a, k0 u# ?</span><br /> <span style="display:none">3 F+ Q- n% _! c1 y: w% ?# a</span> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">1 m4 k/ j. }& v; I& i3 G! K</font><br /> 走进院子，阳光下人们三三两两的闲坐着。老爷爷老奶奶一脸和蔼，让我想起我在天上的爷爷奶奶。<br /> <span style="display:none">% i. l' x* l9 w# `# D' S3 B' u</span> 虽然语言不通，但我坐在阳光下看了他们很久。<font class="jammer">6 W/ s% m1 O5 a</font><br /> <font class="jammer">' [) r! W9 h% l7 ^+ d% A3 `</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170241a1hiwh6ha4qh44ih.jpg" alt="20170201234527251567979_910.jpg" title="20170201234527251567979_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><br /> <span style="display:none">$ {0 W$ [9 L7 j2 |* @+ v+ G. F</span><font class="jammer">) g4 r! U( G" X7 k</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">5 d- H5 j' `$ y</span><br /> <span style="display:none">+ ]& o& j/ F4 y. u0 e</span><div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170253j55imf9rem0b0mcx.jpg" alt="20170201234525470529889_910.jpg" title="20170201234525470529889_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">' m" U: \* ?/ P6 k7 X$ H</font><br /> <font class="jammer">9 \+ o% s, K7 W2 S. r" ~& N' I6 [</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">+ Q+ f# |9 _) a</span> 也有和我一样，一个人独坐的。在热热闹闹的环境里，显得格格不入。<font class="jammer">/ K- i5 i8 T8 f+ [, {5 R- |</font><br /> <font class="jammer">' Y" z' ?5 [0 Y4 F! y</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170302nfi4t0t8jewzf8lt.jpg" alt="20170201234534860433764_910.jpg" title="20170201234534860433764_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">- F* m& c1 p2 p! q w, X</font><br /> <font class="jammer">7 l1 _: E( l( G! u0 ]* T7 U</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">! N5 S9 O* E; g2 v. j</font><br /> 特别好玩的是，村民们出的随喜，是放在一大盆米里端过来的。然后一位看起来书生模样的叔叔，在一个红红的名册本子上记下名字，和多少斤大米。<br /> <span style="display:none">' h. ~0 N' N' N</span><br /> <span style="display:none">' c% v+ O4 g9 h/ i8 K2 R</span><div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170324mk2bg5442a94dzgi.jpg" alt="20170201234606782572884_910.jpg" title="20170201234606782572884_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">0 \8 t# f. m7 D, B/ e* j' C& E</font><br /> <font class="jammer">$ j' M# w. M6 s4 o</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">; ~, z, t9 ~ T ~0 t</span> 继昨晚蹭了晚饭之后，继续蹭午饭。大理的生皮生肉和酸辣鱼是当地特色，等我一筷子夹下去放进嘴里，小伙伴才告诉我是生的猪肉。<br /> <span style="display:none">& f8 c5 K. B" h" r7 o! L: b- M</span> 刘哥说，婚礼上用的猪肉都是现杀的，也能追溯到是哪一家养的猪。所以这猪肉是顶好的，才能放心的生吃。<font class="jammer">, G9 s! \# I# x</font><br /> 可，可我还是咽不下去啊～<font class="jammer">. L6 e/ ?$ I% P</font><br /> <font class="jammer">% O& F% o) A1 V0 d</font><br /> <div align="center"> <ignore_js_op> <img src="data/attachment/forum/201711/07/170354dig6cw6nf51ci66u.jpg" alt="20170201234619751238985_910.jpg" title="20170201234619751238985_910.jpg" /> </ignore_js_op> </div><font class="jammer">0 J, L( f/ K6 w) W! P' l1 }</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">9 W1 ?& G( D( T" f, e/ W& o3 J. u</span> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">) F o/ r6 O+ M \) w" V; F</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">( X. J8 s7 w+ U, N</span><br /> <span style="display:none">" j- E7 Y2 q0 J</span><br /> <span style="display:none">0 ^0 s4 ]+ s$ f& N# \( X/ b/ a</span> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">1 u8 n7 D4 |1 `0 A1 Z, e0 k</span> 午后，在举行了磕拜长辈等一大堆仪式之后，我跟着大部队出发去新娘家。浩浩荡荡的大部队啊，把桃源村小小的巷子都挤满了。<br /> <span style="display:none">2 U$ H4 `2 e7 |8 [( V</span> 新郎家离新娘家也就一公里不到，走路过去就好。我们城市，婚车一排排的大排场，在这里是没有的。<br /> <span style="display:none">2 v% O# l3 b D6 _- r$ B</span> 抬起头，万里无云的蓝天，和刺眼的阳光，都忘记我在冬天。<font class="jammer">6 o# f& {% Z& {' |</font><br /> <font class="jammer">7 P! o$ v# J2 y' N$ j6 C</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">) E& q, Q7 y4 l6 V0 [</span><br /> <span style="display:none">. ~: k2 s8 H& v& m! S2 w</span> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">( k& y6 v- p+ p) ]" W" [: V# `</font><br /> 到了新娘家，屋里屋外也是挤满了宾客。一楼的走廊里，放着旅行箱被子等陪嫁的物品。镜框里放在人民币，里面夹了张银行卡，用红纸贴了十万。想来现在少数民族的经济条件也挺好的。<font class="jammer">2 g: i( Z E/ Q9 S6 z6 R</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">' N' [8 w* r4 O3 D# h7 t</span><br /> <span style="display:none">/ i" W1 x+ b, m/ R# w</span><br /> <span style="display:none">8 H: ?7 q% f* M</span> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">! z! Q$ m7 \) D0 }, L% }' W</span> 有幸可以上到二楼，看新娘穿衣打扮，二楼是不允许男人上来的。伴娘们在楼梯台阶上放酒杯，说呆会要走二步喝一杯，让男人们一路喝上来。<br /> <span style="display:none">, h1 @) \9 e! M V/ }; k6 n</span> 那个二十岁就出嫁的白族新娘，由长辈们梳妆打扮。新娘没有穿婚纱，一身喜庆的红衣。头上那巨大彩色的帽子，颠覆了我的想象力，如此的夸张。后面的长辫上也全部插满了彩色的花，女人们挤在一起，争先恐后的和新娘拍合影。<font class="jammer">! M* Q" q5 K8 t& t9 G& p</font><br /> <font class="jammer">/ v1 S4 N$ Q+ F) \1 d</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">" p3 ^) P9 \$ G( E; ~</span><br /> <span style="display:none">+ j5 w+ d* `; s2 U5 q' [1 ^</span> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">8 x& q* Z) h1 C5 P0 ^</font><br /> 一双精致的手工绣花鞋，散发着传统精致的美。<font class="jammer">* m O) o( f. I</font><br /> <font class="jammer">3 r7 l. R4 c! J) P. A! l</font><br /> <font class="jammer">" V. g* K: r( c0 L/ C; h, F6 {5 N</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">! Y0 A2 r G. g+ w p# ~( c& T</span> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">/ L" Y4 V) L7 }: e$ e</font><br /> 伴娘团的一群美女，浅笑嫣然，一个个都好美。雪白的肌肤，大大的眼睛，同作为女人，都觉得好养眼，我要是男人，就留在大理了!<br /> <span style="display:none">$ p1 c3 \- j5 h</span><br /> <span style="display:none">; Y* Z S& V5 h$ w( D, H, K% ?</span><font class="jammer"> P9 b( Z0 V# `) s% E+ y) _</font><br /> <font class="jammer">% D+ \0 j9 t) l8 U5 }</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none"># O, V9 g, c+ o2 X1 G; L9 g</span> 在新郎和伴郎团突破重重难关后，新郎终于牵到了新娘的手。我在那样的气氛里，感受着喜悦。<br /> <span style="display:none">1 a3 w4 q! t: z1 Q3 o$ g' v% z</span><br /> <span style="display:none">" B1 O) c& _7 i$ ?1 p+ u1 S, n</span><br /> <span style="display:none">) G; @/ ^3 U0 l+ r6 x</span><font class="jammer">- O7 }) O* o# Q</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer"> ?7 t( R$ Q7 n! f! [9 Z. M</font><br /> 令我惊讶的是，返程去往新郎家的路上，我跟在人群的后面。鞭炮断断续续，人们走走停停。<font class="jammer">2 Y" s" l/ N) d</font><br /> 怎么停下来了呢？上前去一看，伴郎团在大街上围住新娘新郎，上演各种小游戏。这闹洞房，都在大街上闹的啊？<br /> <span style="display:none"> v: G5 w g2 w$ E0 T. p& A! o</span><font class="jammer">9 l. Z: r' h: h- z9 _</font><br /> <font class="jammer">/ z) x9 w& i/ C</font><br /> <font class="jammer">% d( m- ~3 O) h. m</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">" W1 A9 F+ H; q+ W Y( j</span> 我想上去看看都在玩什么损人游戏，可是人实在太多挤不上去。只听见不时的哄堂大笑，不时想要逃跑的新郎做着鬼脸～<font class="jammer">9 H6 e; s2 G0 x( L/ }</font><br /> 几乎全村的人都在这条路上了。情绪是会感染的，那一天，特别的快乐。此刻回想起来，都会微笑。<br /> <span style="display:none">8 w& z1 F f* q( P# s. W h0 n" ~8 {</span><br /> <span style="display:none">9 Z3 J! p" P6 S# w- c$ l</span><font class="jammer">1 [4 T6 F3 y! L6 m, M8 o</font><br /> <font class="jammer">8 q5 ]) c0 R7 z! {+ K9 n. o</font><br /> 摄影/若有所思<font class="jammer">6 O5 |0 ?( E0 E9 ]* x</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none"># F+ ]1 T& X3 C" y. f4 B8 U</span><br /> <span style="display:none">+ a2 o3 ?( v* G1 Y+ X9 h</span><br /> <span style="display:none">4 T. p( c9 u' A3 W</span> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">2 b1 d# X6 a' o* o4 U</span> 到了新郎家，又是磕拜等各种仪式。被穿着民族服装的白族女人们迷住了，谋杀了我很多的相机快门。<font class="jammer">1 o# t7 H# F8 H& ~7 ~</font><br /> 晚饭依旧蹭的喜宴，喝了几杯青梅酒，很好下口，却容易醉。一桌子白族特色的菜，每一道都很好吃。<font class="jammer">7 u5 W5 W3 Y# X( L) j. D s9 d. g</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">, w4 i0 E5 z, a</span><font class="jammer">4 q4 z3 Y3 y0 m# x% _</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">1 H# T* i2 P; m8 @- P</span> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none"># z2 X) n$ E. p: q e1 E r</span> 记得那晚，大亚遇见另一个玩民族音乐的朋友，喝酒聊音乐许久，渐渐天色渐黑，我看着刘哥，丸子，滑宾他们的笑脸。听着大亚开心的哼着歌，桃源人家的院子里，充斥着欢声笑语。<br /> <span style="display:none">7 E1 H1 x1 o( D- F, F</span> 有人喝多了，有人喝趴了，我微醺的笑脸，入了谁的眼？抬起头，洱海的月已经升的很高，听旁边的女人说：在这里美女叫金花，帅哥叫阿鹏。<br /> <span style="display:none">3 S8 P$ \5 T. e# Y+ H; G. r</span> 来来来，阿鹏，我们再走一个～～<font class="jammer">+ ]; ~6 g) U9 a# m5 F</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">. N) c; t" Q, d5 [! ]</span><br /> <span style="display:none">6 F' ]0 M' c. m, b+ t9 t+ u</span><br /> <span style="display:none">0 ~; J" Q6 e% [+ q! b- u</span> 摄影/若有所思<br /> <span style="display:none">$ h; f7 r1 _" I# r: b& B</span> 深夜我回到桃源人家海景别院，在网络里分享着这一天的美好，快乐是需要分享的。一个人的房间，住了好几个夜晚，渐渐熟悉。我能听见自己哼着歌，对着镜子微笑。<font class="jammer">2 M# ] ]- d7 x! 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