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I' v9 ?5 M# J: v3 H</font><br /> 时间或许不会改变历史，却可以用一些现象让周围的人改变思想。当三个女娃娃相续走出了小村庄，村里人开始羡慕起这对夫妇。村里人有没有学着他们让自己的女娃娃也读书，这一点我无从考据。站在此岸看彼岸的月亮总是又大又圆，很多时候很多事情，我们只能如人饮水冷暖自知。<br /> <span style="display:none">( O' K( x% k9 r, S! b) E. a</span>白族姑娘上的是卫校，刚毕业就当了护士，花一般的年龄总是会让人闻到蜜的清香。自然，刚刚毕业的她性格也有些棱角，不会圆滑。正宗吃货在一次喝酒之后又住进了医院，不喜欢打针的他遇到做事不会圆滑的她，故事就这样开始了。我想象过他们从相识到相知的无数个版本，可最终都没有写出来。虽说艺术是来源于生活，但我还是很想本份的、原生态的来写。<br /> <span style="display:none">3 c3 ~: G5 j/ B; f. O</span>正宗吃货是生意人，生意人有时总会用钱来衡量一些事情，譬如爱情。当所有的糖衣炮弹对白族姑娘都没有产生反应时，正宗吃货似乎明白了钱有时候在某些地方是无法发挥它的作用。当正宗吃货做生意失败成了屌丝，失落的他跑来找白族姑娘寻求安慰，长时间消失在白族姑娘生活中的他再一次的出现在她的生活里，让她意识到在不经意之间他对她已经不是一般的追求者那么简单。<br /> <span style="display:none">0 [) [$ s! y) C$ u3 H</span>白族姑娘对我说其实在正宗吃货追求她的那段日子，她已经动了心，只是不想被周围的人议论她跟他是为了他的钱，一直犹犹豫豫，不知怎么才好。想想也是，刚刚毕业的她，在一个陌生的城市，突然出现了一个对自己嘘寒问暖的人，不动心莫非是铁石心肠？<br /> <span style="display:none">' W% j$ T* u$ @( g: _& x2 |</span>生活还在进行，正宗吃货在大理开了客栈，白族姑娘自然成了老板娘。他能够给她一份稳定安逸的生活，她能够让他感受到家的温暖。对他们来说，已经足够了。其它的和外人有什么关系呢？生活是自己的。<font class="jammer">2 X% ?3 v) c! X) J) s U! u</font><br /> 后来，白族姑娘告诉我，她生了一个女儿，吃货很高兴。俩人每天想到有这个小小的人就感到幸福，生活自然也更有奔头。虽不求大富大贵，但也希望让这个小小的人衣食无忧。末了，姑娘对我分享她的喜悦：没有做过母亲当真是不能体会到母亲的幸福。<font class="jammer">! 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P- O</font><br /> <font class="jammer">' n7 ?' f- v; o0 s, ~</font><br /> 我们总是在追逐，但偶尔我们也会停下。不管他因何而停下，只要不再追逐了，那他可能就已经找到了解决方案。也许他还会再继续追逐，却也不同了。<font class="jammer">9 L; T# \1 e3 [; P1 V$ h E</font><br /> <font class="jammer">7 d! F2 b: r8 X</font><br /> 人生不仅仅只有金字塔这一种模式，谁都想登上那金字塔的顶端，可就金字塔的顶端那么一小块地又能容纳几个人？！别忘了，金字塔是尖的...<br /> <span style="display:none">' ?' y, @+ f' U1 _! K, m</span><font class="jammer">8 ?0 p. L, P/ g. ~</font><br /> 在这漫长而又短暂的人生中有一种模式与金字塔很相似:狼牙棒模式！虽说相似可又完全不同。这狼牙棒模式呀很是有趣。它就是把这世界比做一个圆球，而“人”就是那一根根的刺儿。那“刺儿”它就是咱人生的金字塔，就是咱的人生。咱要做的就是要从这“球”里狠狠的扎出来。<font class="jammer">; d+ c3 ?5 \# |+ x</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">9 f" k, x% \4 c0 P- D$ \. d</span>至于要怎么扎，用什么方法扎?最后精彩与否，寻找吧...<br /> <span style="display:none">3 p5 X. o' b+ P6 e% Z0 \</span><br /> <span style="display:none">- D5 M# S# j/ {6 D3 y2 t</span>还有一种模式，它与金字塔模式也有形同之处:树模式！世界就像一颗苍天大树，而我们就是那树叶。虽说都是“往上”的，可仔细一看也不尽然。这里有无数枝条，不一定就非要死命地往上爬，我们可以在树腰、树干、树顶的无数枝条上选一个地儿“长出来”。不管最后选的是哪里，换个角度看看你会发现，我们已然在最顶端了...只是这个顶端是否是你想要的那个“顶端”?琢磨吧...<br /> <span style="display:none">6 X# I- E [) F* Z4 s2 E</span><font class="jammer">( K' R9 a5 i( U</font><br /> 也有这么一种模式，它与金字塔模式截然不同。它就是“混沌模式”！什么是混沌模式?<br /> <span style="display:none">; V/ L, T4 ~+ i* k' p6 b* X) S</span><font class="jammer">% U. P3 ]. D; ~7 d4 t+ I. S2 }' @</font><br /> 首先咱看看这混沌两字儿 ，它们出现最多的无疑就是小说里面了。盘古开天地劈的不就是混沌吗?先有盘古后有天，那盘古大神生活在什么世界里呢？混沌世界嘛！所以这“混沌模式”很特别，在这个世界里一切都是未知之数（与我们的人生很贴切），想要活着就得学会“劈”！<br /> <span style="display:none">1 b+ D- C& c, \: \5 \+ M</span><br /> <span style="display:none">5 S: _* }8 R5 k* ~. L- `8 n</span>在这个世界里不会有金字塔的顶端，也不会有无数的枝条，亦不会出现一个找一地儿就能扎出来的“球”。这里的一切都是未知的，你需要去摸索、去寻找、去尝试、去验证。一切只能自己去完成，至于你是要爬?要扎?要长?...自己决定吧！这最后的结果，我想我们也是是能接受的。毕竟这是我们自己的...<font class="jammer">/ q/ M I6 l3 W0 O: E0 {7 b</font><br /> <br /> <span style="display:none">6 e8 ^+ N4 c/ ] ?/ y</span>不管我们是用哪一种模式经营自己的人生，其目的不就是让我们自己的人生精彩点吗？套用最近听的一段很怪但又很精辟的话:<font class="jammer">2 A" I/ K5 W+ ?+ Z4 P</font><br /> <font class="jammer">$ p! @, h/ e5 Q6 K" p, T8 l</font><br /> “时代变了，我们也该变变了！不然我们这些老家伙就只有‘等死’的份了。”<font class="jammer">4 K; t, u' J4 l; \3 l) Q</font><br /> <font class="jammer">. 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